Agree or disagree? (see below)
I happen to agree. Not to minimize anyone's stress in their academic job or to discount the anxieties that come with the pressure to get grants, publish papers, advise students, teach teach teach, travel, answer endless surveys from administrators who want to know about our quality of life but whose response seems to be to make life more difficult, and so on, BUT a reader writes:
What other job lets you take 3 months in the summer to work on your own with few other obligations (some faculty I know work from home 4/5 days during the week in the summer)?
I happen to agree. Not to minimize anyone's stress in their academic job or to discount the anxieties that come with the pressure to get grants, publish papers, advise students, teach teach teach, travel, answer endless surveys from administrators who want to know about our quality of life but whose response seems to be to make life more difficult, and so on, BUT a reader writes:
.. from talking to male and female colleagues with
kids, and having my daughter recently myself I find the idea that
Academia is (more than other careers) hostile to family life to be
hugely overblown.
How many other jobs can you basically decide to set
your schedule to be whatever hours you want, or even to work from home
much of the time (I know several faculty members who have done this when
they had young children and remain successful)?
What other job lets you take 3 months in the summer to work on your own with few other obligations (some faculty I know work from home 4/5 days during the week in the summer)?
What other career gives you 6 months to work from home or even another
state if you want to, with no other work obligations, every 5-7 years (I
know faculty who have taken a sabbatical basically to raise their
infants)?
And all of this while you are doing work you love
that is intellectually stimulating, allows a standard of living well
above average (and job security to rival a government job - even better
at present!), and is physically safe.
I am sick and tired of the privilege I see coming
from academics. Some people have to actually work for a living. They
work their bodies to death, and their minds to jelly because they have
to. We are lucky. So, Damn, Lucky.
What we need to do now, is convince more women of
this and stop scaring people away with this idea that Academic science
is some kind of hell that will destroy your life, your soul, and your
family and any sane person would stay away... I think maybe some people
have selective memories... It certainly doesn't seem to match with
what you've described of your home life, or really that of any academic
I've met.
















